All tagged resilience

Business As Usual

GREAT NEWS - BUSINESS AS USUAL.

We are all currently facing very difficult times, and trying to overcome challenges we never imagined having to deal with. We face weeks ahead at home with little contact with others. Most are battling with fears and anxieties about their own health and the health of loved ones, whilst the majority of us are concerned about how our NHS will cope. Many of us are desperately worried about finances, job security, and our children's education. Whilst all of us will have our own unique family struggles and concerns.

These are unchartered waters and some of us will cope well, whilst others will feel totally at sea. I am around and available to coach and support you, should you feel it could help, and am working on a "business as usual" basis providing 'virtual coaching sessions' via Zoom, FaceTime or phone.

Amongst other subjects, I am providing life coaching, stress coaching, building resilience, support with anxiety and fear, time management and working productively from home coaching, and support around family challenges. Together we can ensure you come out of these weeks feeling calmer, mentally stronger, much more resilient, efficient and ready to face life with complete direction.

Don't stay stuck in the mud

What is inner resilience? Why is it that some people cope with difficult times and life struggles better than others. What's the difference, and how do they do it?

The answer is that 'resilient people' don't stay stuck in the swamp of the problem. They don't focus on the "why is this happening?" or "why me?"

Instead, resilient people focus on the "how am I going to get out of this?" or, "what can I do to solve this/improve this?"

They go into solution mode and problem solving, they look ahead to when and how things can improve. They take action, make decisions, have goals and look forward rather than dwell on the present problem exclusively.

Sometimes we all need to wallow a little, but there comes a time when we need to get out of the mud and start to move forward. The question is, how soon do we want to do that?